I don't hate Kate

I don't hate Kate (of John & Kate + 8) like so many others do. I'm surprised that most of my friends think she's horrendous and deserves the misery she's living in right now. I don't. I know she can be bitchy but what wife isn't a BIOTCH sometimes? There were a few times she spoke to John like he was a child in public and that was wrong but maybe he was acting like a child. She shouldn't have embarrassed him in public but I still don't think she's as horrible as people think she is. I always thought she was doing it because it made for good TV. I guess I think she's getting a bad rap. Maybe he was being a dick the entire time. Maybe she suspected he was cheating on her and that is why she was bitchy with him. Only they know the truth and I'm sure they each have their own truth. Just like any other couple going through divorce. From what I can see she is a very good mother. I don't know how she does it, even with help. To have that many kids would be insanely overwhelming for anyone.

I used to like John but he is not the John I saw on the show in the beginning. He is an earring and Ed Hardy T-shirt wearing man whore. He is now suddenly spotted with several different women in their 20's! There is no need for that. At least wait until your divorce if final! It's like he's gone a bit mad. Maybe being locked up for so long under Kate's thumb didn't help matters but at least she hasn't been bad mouthing him. She never says anything negative about him personally when she does interviews. She mostly just talks about her feelings and being there for her kids. She is taking the high road. He is taking the low road. Hopefully things will calm down soon and the kids aren't too messed up in the process.